second wind

an acquaintance of mine declared again that employment is not to happen for him nor myself,pretty arrogant ,i think. Why not say i am better suited to self employment? But why is someone judging me? Why should i accept it?I decline to be judged by anyone at their whim.Sice it is unsolicited and i didn't pay for it ,it rings hollow now.Just thinking out loud. Another free din din tonight.